Froggy went a-courtin'

Sup blog-followers
So recently I've been thinking about "dating" in our society.  I"m not sure if you've heard the song Froggy went a-courtin'...if not look it up its a little nursery rhyme of sort. but that's where I got the title from just fyi.

Remember back in the day when dating was going out on a date......those were the good old days. Now I've noticed more and more people are skipping the "courting" phase of the dating process and going straight into the "going together", going steady, in a relationship part.
I have no problem with monogamy if that's what you're getting to. I am actually a supporter of it (I'll get to that later). But now it seems that in our society teens, and some kids, get way too serious way too fast. For example, I know several people that are in high school that have met someone and within a few days was "dating" them. Now I'm not a hypocrite so I will go ahead and admit that I was guilty of this crime in my younger days, but now I know better.

Back to my topic...lol dating and the confusion in society. I have been single for aprox. 3 months and have changed my view on it completely. I have decided to go back to the old school style and court a few guys and then decipher who it is I feel the most compatable with. Some people say that what I'm doing is unfair and cheating and being a player, pimpette, hoebag, but my response is that I am not monogamous so therefore I can do as I please. I just wanted to make this suggestion to all those out there that are single: don't tie yourself down so quickly especially ladies. Test the waters out and then become monogamous.

*Look out for a follow up blog on my take of friends with benefits coming up within the hour entitled "Froggy Went A-Courtin'....and Was Found Wanting...."